Being a black woman in Dallas, Texas, is downright scary these days. As the nation prepares for the 50th anniversary of the assassination of John F. Kennedy, many of our mothers, daughters, sisters and friends are being attacked on all fronts.
In addition to the Crime Watch Captain who terrorized women for months and doesn't feel guilty about it: No means no, even if she's a "prostitute", there's the case of Donald Maiden (DJ), the 8 year old boy shot in the face by a racist imp: Post Racial America...Not.
Donations are being accepted for his medical care.
During a community rally held last weekend, I was able to meet DJ's mama, grandma and sister, who exhibited such grace and strength despite this horrible act of violence. To add insult to injury, the culprit has been charged with "injury to a child" instead of Attempted Murder, which could give him a harsher sentence.
One of the things I love most about being a black woman is our ability to make lemonade when there is no sugar. We are filled with unconditional love, especially for our boys and men, and are able to find sweetness even in the most sour circumstances. Contrary to what the media projects, we are good...and my god, do we know how to show restraint!
However, our ability to 'bear it' has greatly contributed to this grim statistic coming out of Dallas: Black women more likely to die from domestic violence and this should make us all pause and reflect.
Despite the stereotype of the "Strong Black Woman", we are three times more likely to die at the hands of a partner or ex-partner? What are these men trying to prove? What are we?
Don't let shame kill you. If you or someone you know is hurting, please get help.
Here's a list of numbers you can call. http://www.dallasdvresources.org/phone.php
You are worthy.
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